The German Day

Dear Old Bolds, Friends and Family,

Day 2 in Normandy was a very different day.  A German one. This day was about Hans Poelchau, a friend Charley had lost and now found after 80 years.

Charley was born in Annaberg, a Saxon mountain town close to the Czech border. As the years passed, his father’s severe head and facial injuries from World War I brought continuing health problems that partially incapacitated him.  Then Charley’s mother became deathly ill, and had to enter a tuberculosis clinic. At the age of ten, Charley was sent to Hamburg into the care of his grandmother.

It was there that he met next door neighbor Hans Poelchau, a productive partner in crime.  Hans was a wild child, with a beautiful mother and a father who had been a naval officer. Hans’ mother’s mother was American, and Jewish, and had married a prominent member of the Jewish business community in Hamburg.  They baptized and raised their daughter as a Lutheran.  When Hans was born he was baptized Lutheran as well.  The two generations of conversion to Christianity meant nothing to the Nazis, who had just taken power.  In 1935 the Nuremberg laws declared Hans’ mother as 100% Jewish, he received the ugly designation of “Mischling”, a half-Jew.

To the boys, Charley, and Hans, and their neighbor Harald Koelln, this naturally meant nothing. They did what all bands of bored adolescent boys do, ran through the neighborhood sowing mischief. Their favorite game was playing soldier, and Hans was the fiercest of them all.  They threw sharpened spears at one another, barely fending off serious injury with homemade shields. Like many small boys, Hans had a deep love of fireworks and made use of them to attack his friends. They were lucky to survive.

Then one day, Hans and his family disappeared. No one knew where they had gone, and no one knew what had happened to them. Hans had never said good-bye. Charley missed his friend, and had no way of finding him. The mystery haunted him but events started overtaking his world – school, planting and tending food gardens, the Hitler Youth, being bombed fairly regularly, and eventually being called to serve his country.  When Charley returned home in 1947, he tried to find his friend or the family but none of his attempts were successful. The rumor was that Hans had died during the war in the Germany army.

We recently started looking for Hans again.  We found his sister had died last year – we were painfully late.  We found a friend of hers, who told us of the persecution of the family during the Nazi regime.  Hans had been whisked away by the Gestapo to one of their foul jails for four weeks in 1942 for the awful crime of listening to swing music, which he had – naturally – passionately loved. After he was released, he succeeded in joining the German army, but as a half-Jew this was no easy task, as it was forbidden, and we don’t know how or why he managed it. Perhaps it was in a desperate attempt to shield his mother, who was forced to take the name Sara, wear the star, and endure repeated interrogations by the Gestapo. She lived under the constant threat of deportation. There would be no help for them elsewhere – as baptized Lutherans they were most likely turned away by committees set up to assist the Jewish community, although why they did not escape to the US with their American family member is a mystery. By the end of the war, the stress, grief and anxiety about his family had nearly killed Hans’ father.

We turned to the office responsible for keeping track of the fate of all German soldiers during World War II. They told us Hans had died as a lance corporal in an artillery unit in Normandy.  Further research indicates that his regiment was on the front line at the Falaise Gap in mid-July and was virtually wiped out by the initial heavy Allied bombardment.  Hans was mortally wounded, and brought to the Chateau de Sassy, which had been turned into a military hospital by the Germans.  He fought hard for his life – he was just 19, and had a pregnant wife at home.  On August 4, 1944, Hans succumbed. He was buried with many of his comrades in the hospital cemetery 100 yards behind the chateau. After the war, his body was disinterred and reburied in La Cambe German military cemetery, not very far from the famous American cemetery overlooking Omaha Beach.

Charley has visited the cemetery for decades, without knowing Hans was there.  This time, our visit was for him. With Graham in tow, we entered the somber stone-hewn gateway into the cemetery.  A vast green landscape is interrupted only by large trees and a series of thick, squat stone crosses, grey and foreboding, with a mound in the middle, a dark stone cross at its peak.  There are no headstones.  The rough red stone markers are in the ground.  The German boys are buried two or more to a marker – the Allies in general throughout the world being unwilling to give the Germans enough land so that each could have his own grave.

While waiting for our French historian friends, we visited famous tank ace Michael Wittman’s grave. As we then wandered towards the center-point of the cemetery, we had two surprising encounters.  The first was with a French family – a mother and several children – seeking autographs. In the German cemetery.  This was unusual enough, but it was followed by a German reporter, part of an international team of journalists, who, with my video camera already rolling, did what came naturally to him – he started asking Charley a series of deeply penetrating questions. His interest was startling, because Germans and their media generally have little, no, or hostile interest in their own veterans.  This gentleman represented a mainstream outlet. His open curiosity was exceptional.

When we reached the center peak, Charley insisted on climbing the two flights of stairs to have a birds-eye view of his friend’s grave. Although Graham’s gammy leg prevents him from being an enthusiastic stair-climber, he was not to be outdone.  My pleas to both of them for a modicum of restraint fell on (intentionally) deaf ears, and I could not shepherd both, as Charley, typically, had already bounded off. Luckily, friends and strangers volunteered to hover and offer a hand to both when needed while I filmed their ascent and descent.

When we had safely returned to the earth, we made our way to Hans’ grave, where we spent silent moments contemplating the difficulty of his short life, in grief that he had not had the fortune to survive the war and see his child and a better world.

After a short rest at the hotel, we drove the hour south – south of Falaise, south of Argentan – to Chateau de Sassy.  Chateau de Sassy’s exterior is gorgeous and sumptuous in the way of the best French chateaus. What a beautiful, horrible place to die, embraced by its splendor. We toured the house before we viewed its stunning gardens.

It was crushing to think of the wasted young lives on both sides. We wished, and we still hope now, that we will not be the only ones to think of Hans, to remember a life that deserved to be lived, and not persecuted and then lost before he’d had a proper chance to experience the joys of it.

Our return was a silent one. Storm clouds rolled in when we arrived in Bayeux, as did busloads more American tourists, who flooded the restaurants.  After being turned down at two (the French indifferently tell you they are full, and don’t take waiting lists, even for WWII veterans), I left Charley and Graham in the drizzle to run to a third, where I just got the last table. After I had retrieved them, and we had settled down with local cider and deliciously prepared local food, we contemplated the day as the rain passed through.

What would our next two days, English ones, bring?

With much love,

Heather